Something is wrong with me.
I don’t feel I have enough friends in my life. Yes, there is quite a number of people and acquaintances, but it doesn’t feel like friendship to me. But then, the concept of friendship has always been a little vague to me. We know we need to make “good friends”. And while “good friends” is subjective, it is still very confusing. Who qualifies as a good friend? I have my values and other people have theirs. Okay I’m supposed to link up with people who share the same values as I.
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I think narcissism has its good side, like brewing an intense distaste for unnecessary drama that doesn’t concern you while you focus on yourself. It is however left to the narcist to channel the excess self-love into a force to get productive work done.
I’d rather sit and write some lame ass story while listening to the sound of my off-key voice sing along to Tim McGraw’s “Highway Don’t Care” and thereafter go online to learn something that will make me appear smarter by updating my knowledge archive than to go spend hours on twitter reading about other people’s drama that has nothing to do with me.
I love myself too much to have time for irrelevant happenings around me, but I don’t indulge in unproductive me-time. I rather channel the energy into a growth-inducing endeavour that fuels my narcissism but also improves me.